Can romance be cheap?
its not that i was tinking for 4 days about this but cos i really got nothing to write about. Instead of telling u all that i wake up every morning, brush teeth followed by a daily dump and all that crap... i decided to keep my daily routine to myself... hee.
Okie back to the main topic.. well personally when i was in secondary school i learnt that romance can be cheap. A simple action like writing a note saying how much u love a person and hiding it in the person's book or bag is romantic. Or appearing at the person's school out of the blue just to pick the person up. But!!! then i came to realise that these type of actions might just be crap to most girls. So i came to a conclusion that different type of girls have different concept of romance. Thus if by mathematical deduction, the cost of romance may vary from girl to girl. The previous scenerio about the note thing woke on more than half i think... Note that i say i think. Cos i am not a love god or very efficient girl chaser, i can only pen down my two cents worth of thoughts.
For me, romance can really be a good think in life, it make me feel alive and accomplished. A girl is meant to be loved and to be treated well. Last but not least girls are meant to be respected. Respect is very important as i feel my ppl nowadays dun not have this basic quality. I remember hearing some gangster say F**k my father mother lar.. who the f they are to tell me what to do.. i was astounded by that comment.. what in the world i wrong with this guy. Anyways back to the topic.. i realised i keep letting my thought wander off.. and the way i typing like i giving some kid a lecture.. lolz.. manz i am getting naggy.
Then again like i was saying.. respect is important too.. sometimes certain action that u do for a girl out of respect for the opposite sex comes across as something romantic. Like how i like to always help my darling iron her hair once in a while. The very fact that i wish to participate might by chance, if i am lucky come across as something romantic. So that is Free romance right there.
It all boils down to my definition of romance and whether she can catch it. I find that sitting by the beach hugging her and smelling her hair romantic. But for all i know she might find that psychotic and that is bad.. .lolz...
So that stunt i have never tried...
When a girl sees something nice and says she wanna buy it. You stop her and then subsequently buys it for her the next day or better still that very day. Then surprise her with it, that there could be romantic too. But the item must be 30 dollars or below for me.. that is my budget lar..
Which means what is cheap to u??
In most cases i can just say that if the girl really likes u, even walking together on the street holding hand is romantic... like my mum once told me:" aiyah boy if the girl likes u, your life will be very easy one.. dun be stupid." yes this is from one of my lousy encounters. lolz.. but what my mum say is true.. if the girl realy loves u, almost everything thing u do for her is romantic.. DO FOR HER is the main point.
It is nearly impossible to understand a female mentality but it is always possible to read the human body language, tone and facial expression.
So can romance be cheap for me that is a yes!
The next post i will talk about the me me me person. lolz.....
Okie back to the main topic.. well personally when i was in secondary school i learnt that romance can be cheap. A simple action like writing a note saying how much u love a person and hiding it in the person's book or bag is romantic. Or appearing at the person's school out of the blue just to pick the person up. But!!! then i came to realise that these type of actions might just be crap to most girls. So i came to a conclusion that different type of girls have different concept of romance. Thus if by mathematical deduction, the cost of romance may vary from girl to girl. The previous scenerio about the note thing woke on more than half i think... Note that i say i think. Cos i am not a love god or very efficient girl chaser, i can only pen down my two cents worth of thoughts.
For me, romance can really be a good think in life, it make me feel alive and accomplished. A girl is meant to be loved and to be treated well. Last but not least girls are meant to be respected. Respect is very important as i feel my ppl nowadays dun not have this basic quality. I remember hearing some gangster say F**k my father mother lar.. who the f they are to tell me what to do.. i was astounded by that comment.. what in the world i wrong with this guy. Anyways back to the topic.. i realised i keep letting my thought wander off.. and the way i typing like i giving some kid a lecture.. lolz.. manz i am getting naggy.
Then again like i was saying.. respect is important too.. sometimes certain action that u do for a girl out of respect for the opposite sex comes across as something romantic. Like how i like to always help my darling iron her hair once in a while. The very fact that i wish to participate might by chance, if i am lucky come across as something romantic. So that is Free romance right there.
It all boils down to my definition of romance and whether she can catch it. I find that sitting by the beach hugging her and smelling her hair romantic. But for all i know she might find that psychotic and that is bad.. .lolz...
So that stunt i have never tried...
When a girl sees something nice and says she wanna buy it. You stop her and then subsequently buys it for her the next day or better still that very day. Then surprise her with it, that there could be romantic too. But the item must be 30 dollars or below for me.. that is my budget lar..
Which means what is cheap to u??
In most cases i can just say that if the girl really likes u, even walking together on the street holding hand is romantic... like my mum once told me:" aiyah boy if the girl likes u, your life will be very easy one.. dun be stupid." yes this is from one of my lousy encounters. lolz.. but what my mum say is true.. if the girl realy loves u, almost everything thing u do for her is romantic.. DO FOR HER is the main point.
It is nearly impossible to understand a female mentality but it is always possible to read the human body language, tone and facial expression.
So can romance be cheap for me that is a yes!
The next post i will talk about the me me me person. lolz.....
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